I find it hilarious when people ask me what my writing process is. The reason is that I have no process. I think of ideas while walking down the street, sitting on the toilet, talking to a friend and generally being a human being. If an idea comes to me I have to write it down right away. Whoa, I just used write and right in the same sentence. That was unexpected. 

When my Internet best friend Jessica Davis included me in this blog hop about the writing process, I was really excited because I love to talk about myself, I mean writing. I also love to read other writers. Thanks Jess, you’re amazing! 

Here’s how I write stuff. 

What am I working on right now?

I’m working on two books at the moment. One is a book version of my viral Huffington post article 3-Year-Olds are Assholes. I’m working on this project with a co-author, Byron Hamel, a long time friend and fellow blogger at Trauma Dad.  We’re in the process of submitting the manuscript to various agents. 

The second manuscript I’m writing is my memoir about living with panic disorder and depression. You know you all want to read that one. Here’s some excerpts from that on HuffPost 

How does my work differ from others of it’s genre?

3-Year-Olds are Assholes is a unique humor book because it’s sarcastic and heart-warming all in one. It encourages parents that they are not alone. That’s a first for a humorous parenting books as far as I’m concerned.

Panic – my memoir is different from any mental health-based memoir in that it is brutally honest about dark themes yet hysterically funny at times. That’s not something one sees often in a Sylvia Plath-like book.

Why Do I Write What I Do?

I don’t know how to answer this question. I write because I have to. Without writing, I don’t know if I would even be alive anymore.

How does my writing process work?


It just does. I think of ideas and I stop whatever I’m doing if humanly possible to write. Writing is part of my being. I can’t exist without it. I am what I write. I reach into the confines of my soul and spill my guts onto paper. 

For a complete list of people who are involved in this blog hop click here to Jess’ post because honestly, I’m a lazy ass mother fucker. 

Byron and Jen, if you feel like doing this, it’s fun.